The Story Behind… Wedding Favours
Wedding favours are a surprisingly divisive topic: while some consider these little gifts to be a sweet way of thanking your guests, others think that the money could be spent more wisely elsewhere. But where did the tradition come from? Our latest blog explores the history behind wedding favours…
A centuries-old tradition, it is believed that wedding favours first originated amongst the French aristocracy and upper classes, who would gift small porcelain or crystal trinket boxes filled with sugar or confectionery, named bonbonnieres, to their guests. At this time, sugar was a much rarer commodity than it is now, and considered a luxurious delicacy and symbolised wealth and royalty.
In Greece, wedding parties offered their guests sugared almonds, inspired by the tale of Demophon, the king of Athens whose wife died and reincarnated as an almond tree. The bittersweet nature of almonds is thought to be symbolic of the bittersweet nature of life and love, and the ups and downs that can come with marriage. The addition of sugar expresses hope that life for the happy couple will be more sweet than bitter. Traditionally, five almonds would be gifted to each guest – this prime number being indivisible and symbolic of the unity of the newlywed couple. It was also thought the five almonds would represent fertility, longevity, wealth, health and happiness; as in this poem:
Five sugared almonds for each guest to eat
To remind us that life is both bitter and sweet.
Five wishes for the new husband and wife
Health, wealth, happiness, children, and a long life!
As such, the almonds are considered a symbol of good luck, and the tradition of gifting them as wedding favours spread across Europe. In gifting them to their guests, it is thought that the couple are sharing their luck and happiness with them.
While sugared almonds are falling out of favour with modern couples, it is still common for them to gift confectionery to their guests on their wedding day, with cupcakes, macarons and individual chocolates all proving particularly popular. We’ve also noticed a trend away from food items, with modern wedding favours including scented candles, soaps, photo frames or CD compilations. In next week’s blog, we’ll take a look at some of the modern wedding favours that you might want to consider for your big day – as well as some with a Scottish twist!
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